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Offerings
Depth Sexuality for Men (Spring) Dreaming Self-Initiation (Winter) Sexual Somatics Workshop Year-Long Initiation

Year-Long Initiatory Experience

For men who are ready to re-create their lives completely.

Sometimes we realize that it's more than one thing we want to address. We recognize we want to change everything.

This offer is for men who know they wish to go through all three offerings here at WTFDYW. That is:

  • Depth Sexuality
  • Self-Initiation Through Dreaming
  • Power = Commitment + Responsibility

Together, these three journeys are designed to bring you into *full* agency in your life, no matter your starting place.

Let's Do It.

A seasonal dive into your potential...

 

The way my work is structured is intentional, and has arisen as a result of ten years of trial and error.

During the Spring you will focus on building and directing your sexual energy to create more aliveness within your being with Depth Sexuality.

During the Summer you will rest and engage with the broader calling of your life. We takes summers off, but may have a connection call or two.

During the Fall you will come back and RE-COMMIT to explore the fullness of your power with Power = Commitment + Responsibility.

During the Winter you will self-reflect, and harvest the lessons from your shadow and your dreams so that you can re-integrate them into the rest of your life through Dreaming Self-Initiation.

This process is seasonal, and it will provide a set of tools you can come back to, time and time again.

This process is for you if...

  • You know that you want all of what we offer here at WTFDYW. You resonate with Michael's work, and want to integrate as much as you can.
  • You want to be supported, over time, by a brotherhood of men who are also devoted to doing their work.
  • You are capable of receiving well-intended feedback without becoming defensive.
  • You understand the value of commitment, and have a growth mindset. If you're just wanting to do things the way you've always done them, or you want to complain without evolving your approach to life, this is not your space.
  • You are accepting of people of all faiths, ethnicities, and sexual orientations. You have cultivated curiosity towards life and your fellow man.
  • You have integrity, and can be relied upon to honor your word. You value repair if and when that proves impossible.

 

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What's included:

Standard

$3000 (or 300/mo)

Shift Your Reality

  • Access to a brotherhood of other men going through this journey with you.
  • Recordings of all group calls.
  • Yearlong access to the WTFDYW Whatsapp group to stay connected between calls.
  • My personal care and support, which includes access to my network and contacts developed through over 10 years as a location-independent online entrepreneur.
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Apprentice

$7000

For Developing Leaders

  • Everything in the base level initiatory experience, PLUS:
  • 6 private 1:1 coaching calls over the year to help keep you accountable to your goals, and form a deeper relationship.
  • Access to the cutting edge of my work through early reader access (and the ability to influence) to my book project about male initiatory experiences.
  • A leadership role tailored especially for you within the group of men, and feedback from me about how you show up within it.
Interview

Testimonials

"I feel like I told myself for a long time that I, as resourceful as I am, and as much as I had explored, had access to all sorts of tools and strategies. It was just a matter of needing to kick myself in the pants and have the motivation to use them. After going through Depth Sexuality, I realize I *didn't* have all the tools. I'm more aware of the uncertainties and insecurities I had before, and the tools that I need to move forward are now clear to me. As an entourage. They complement one another."

Brendan

"My partner is *very* happy I found Michael. I used to approach sexuality as a primarily physical activity, and now I am sensitive to the more subtle energies involved."

Jack S

"I have worked with Michael Author for about 10 months now and I highly recommend him. What really set him apart was his ability to see me where I was. I am now a more confident person and I have a few women orbiting around me whereas I was previously limited to birds with broken wings."

 
Olivier W.
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Michael Author

Michael Author has spent over a decade in the trenches after leaving his career as an English professor, first developing his own sexuality consciously, and then 7 years supporting hundreds of men to connect to their healthy masculinity, address sexual insecurities or performance concerns, and create powerful relationships. His background is in western esoteric magick and neo-tantra, and he specializes in helping men who are in times of transition to recreate their lives and their sexuality to fit more completely with their deepest soul-led desires.

Please note that, although the language I use on this page speaks primarily to heterosexual, cisgender, men (who are the bulk of my clientele), Depth Sexuality can be of equal value to queer, gay, and trans-men who are tops, sides, or are versatile as well as to gender nonbinary individuals who were assigned male at birth. Any man or male-bodied individual is welcome here.